Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
Yes, I have regular clients with whom I've formed a special bond. Do I feel "cheated" if/when they see other providers"? No. That would be ridiculous. In fact, I am always willing to be a reference for the clients I like, both as a favor to them and because it contributes to the overall safety of SWers. I just ask that they give me a heads-up so it's easy for the other provider and me. I'll admit, though, I do love it when they already know they'll see me again before we even part the first time. Those are my faves since sessions get better and better the more comfortable and acquainted we are. At the same time, I know the whole point is variety for some. As long as they treat me & others well, I'll help them on their journey.
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
Literally, all they need to do is comply with screening and my simple methods. Be respectful, and conduct yourself as a gentleman should. This goes a long way with me and guarantees we'll both get the maximum enjoyment out of a truly authentic and unique experience.
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
The question says "make," which reminds me of years ago when I was gifted a tastefully painted portrait of myself in lingerie by a client. That was incredibly special, I thought, but I appreciate any time I receive a gift. I love chocolate, flowers, and, of course, lingerie, but maybe in the form of a gift card because it needs to be tried on first. I have a weakness for boots and things that smell good. My favorite fragrances currently are Miss Dior and Paradoxe by Prada. I collect vinyl records and designer handbags. However, at this time, if a man were compelled to offer such generosity and REALLY wants to excite me, I'd rather he contribute to my new car fund or to one of three worthy causes that are closest to my heart vs. buying me that new Versace bag I've had my eye on. I do have a practical side, after all! ;)
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
I think we all have something unique that we bring to the table. Variety is the spice of life. Fortunately, there are men who enjoy a little maturity in a woman, especially when combined with advanced skills. Some say they like that I don't have tattoos. There's also a demographic dedicated to natural breasts, which, in my case, means they particularly enjoy them small and perky as well. It takes all kinds. I'm often told I'm easy to connect and feel comfortable with once face-to-face. More than a couple of times following a first encounter, I've been told it was like reuniting with a "long lost girlfriend." I liked hearing that and knowing I was able to create that experience for them.
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
Initial contact should be very simple and basic for any gentleman serious about meeting. I always prefer they text me directly with their name, where they saw my ad and the specific date and time they desire to meet. Once that's established, screening is always required for the next step. Once that's out of the way, it's all about the fun stuff.
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
Yes.
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
Hmmm... so many personalities. Stay true to yourself and whatever personality qualities make you YOU. What you'll need to acquire if you don't already have is discernment, creativity, marketing skills, willpower, discipline, the ability to manage your money, and very thick skin.
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
Today, women have so much info and resources on the internet. Take advantage of that. Quality > quantity. Don't run on desperation, and never get too greedy. Both will make you too careless. Get a good grasp on screening methods. It's your only safety protocol; it only works if you enforce it 100%. Know your worth to set boundaries. Know your market while designing your business model and setting your rates. Know that there's a difference between your worth and your rates. Remember always to keep your head and your heels high.
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
Short term, I plan to buy a new car. I also would like to travel to Europe in the near future. In the long term, I want to start my own business, which I'm still deciding on while getting further involved in non-profit work.
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
Yes. Not all business is good business. If they don't consider my safety important and give me a hard time over screening, I quickly dismiss further effort. Also, if they don't read my ad, I may not respond to their initial text. "Are you available?" isn't appropriate when my ads politely request a text that includes their name, where they saw me, and the time/day they want to meet.—also, calling me "babe" may cause a restriction. ;D
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
I prefer not to answer. It feels sort of mean and unprofessional on a public platform. All requests are confidential.
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
Maybe sometime.
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A country music singer or a broadcast journalist
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
No. I do my best to create or enter into safe spaces and judgment-free zones. People can suck anywhere at any time. I knew a John who believed he stood on higher moral ground than the women he spent time with. I've also seen a provider post on Xwitter all about how SW has ruined her ability to ever trust a man. I'm pretty sure their names were Pot and Kettle, but I could be mistaken.
How long have you been working as an escort?
I escorted for six years before taking a 10-year hiatus. October marked two years that I've been back at it. So, eight years total, but when I first started, providers were just beginning to tip-toe onto the web. We did it but didn't know if it would be worth the risk at first, or at least that's how I felt about it. Lol. Talk about a game-changer! Fast forward to now. Seeing and learning how the industry has evolved upon re-entering has also been fascinating.
How did you get into the escort business?
Oh, that’s a story I’ll save for when we get to know each other a bit. Lol!
What's the best bit about being an escort?
Freedom. The gift of allocating my time allows me to learn and explore my creative outlets, ways I can impact the world and my community, and other opportunities to better my future. The best part about escorting in practice is connecting with interesting, fun people I appreciate and enjoy on an intimate level with no strings. If I had to choose one word to describe how I view my practice, it would be "therapeutic."
What don't you like about being an escort?
Yikes. Awkward question…. Risk. Stigma. The general consensus is that you can't have depth and be a good person if you're an escort. Perhaps I'm biased, but I beg to differ. I've discovered that people can become viciously evil when blinded by ignorance. They act superior when, in reality, they feel threatened. It's controversial, and people don't comprehend that more and more there's a need and a purpose for us in today's society.
How often do you work per week?
Available seven days/nights a week (schedule pending). I work around my client's schedule. To do that, I have to be available and flexible. I always find time for self-care in the process, of course.
What are your turn-offs?
Bad hygiene, slobbery kisses, and strangers calling me "Babe."
