LydiaStJames

Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?

I don't own anyone. I'm happy for anyone enjoying anyone else. I'm not cheated on, my place is there if even not right then.

How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?

I'm just the same the first visit as the second and any others. I keep convo flowing and laughs rolling as best I can. If I'm comfortable, they usually are too. I don't feel awkward so it's an exchange they can feel without much effort.

If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?

I'm a minimalist by nature. Something second hand that is interesting in almost any topic is always a hit. An antique book on psychiatry, or a picture from the early 1900's...idk I'm a nerd that way.

What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?

I like feeling like friends with my clients. Being able to chat about anything immediately and keeping our exchanges light and playful but witty and interesting. I want them to know I'm genuinely into them not just for their money but as humans as well.

How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?

Calling or texting is the best. I like to know handles from sites where they're active for screening and the rundown of how long and when. I'm pretty simple.

Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?

Not really anymore. If I get nervous it's usually my intuition telling me somethings off and I shouldn't be doing this anyways.

What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?

I have no idea. Be bubbly and sexy and confident. That really is the thing men look for no matter the details under the overall. Whether your shy and flirtatious or nerdy and mysterious...know it and make it your icing on your cake.

If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?

There's no one way that is fail proof. A lot of what you learn is thru trial and error. I would offer the caution to stay 100% along the lines with your gut feelings in any situation. No amount of possible money is worth your safety. And have fun along with remaining firm with rules you make for yourself no matter what.

What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?

I'd love to help people over come trauma that they feel stuck in, the kind that conventional therapy isn't working with. I handled mine with self therapy and I think many don't even know it's an option. In the short i'd like to get a place on my own and lose my car payment!

What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?

I won't deny anyone with proper screening and respectful exchanges up til the meeting.

What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?

Not really a request but once a refrigerator sized man showed up for his scheduled visit and upon filling the open door frame completely with his stature proclaimed "that's not you in those pics" and turned to leave. I was floored! It's in fact me without a doubt! I really didn't care to change his mind, I know the truth but was this a ploy to discover my incall which was also my residence at the time?! I was shook to say the least.

Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?

I loved his voice! He could do T.V voice overs it was so perfect. He was my first $100 hh and remained my client til I retired. I still consider him my friend.

What did you want to be when you were growing up?

A lawyer, I have an AAS in paralegal but it doesn't pay as much and is nowhere as fun.

Has being an escort changed your view of men?

I'm in love with men. I would have called myself bisexual when I began but this has changed 100%. I'm 100% heterosexual, without a doubt.

How long have you been working as an escort?

About 4 years, with a retirement stretch from 2019-til just now.

How did you get into the escort business?

I love sex! Why not get paid for what you love and are good at?!

What's the best bit about being an escort?

You feel ultimately desired, and genuinely appreciated in many ways.

What don't you like about being an escort?

Men who think this isn't MY business. I'm the C.E.O. things are how I want them to go when it comes down to it.